Mens muscles ...lol

What do you do with a partner that needed cheering up.... only one thing i can think of.... but a 1001 ways to do it ..lol

The party went ok, but we were let down by a few people, so my fella was a bit disappointed.... hes feeling uplifted now........lol

On the positive side the friends we did have there, more than made up for it, so its got a huge plus side...

I think personally hes sulking as hes now hit 40 ..lol (it must be a man thing) i cant wait til i get to 40, ive already decided im off somewhere hot so wont be wanting any party except for a beach and a bottle.... im gonna totally misbehave myself and not remember a moment ...... lol

Todays been a good one, im getting my house back to habitable, and catching up with little things i didnt get time for over the weekend... (like making huge rockets! lol) the boys needed rockets made and painted for tomorrow so im now smiling quite happy covered in paint and glitter but enjoyed doing my blue peter impression.... ive got brownie points too from the kids for cool custom flame effects.... my son claims i should be a famous artist, like the one whos dead !.... bless (thanks for that...)lol

Getting back to men, sorry i wandered off a bit there... we were into girls talk today and want to know the answer to a very important question, thats bothering me....lol

I want to know why mens bums dont sag ?

its true, men have more pert butts ... so im intrigued to know why...

if anyone can answer than one cleanly, id be really happy to know, it seems that the older a woman gets the more gravity takes things down, but with men its opposite... lol

The more men age the more things stay firm ...... i meant muscles..lol

come on ..you know what im talking about... im trying to ask a serious question here and its coming out all wrong... lol

Id love to know your opinions on this one, someone said today its because their muscle structure is different..lol agreed they have an extra one.... but women have muscles in their butts so why do ours lose shape and males dont (and if anyone says its because we use ours to sit down more.. (bare in mind i have your ip addresses..lol and a strange sense of humour) so please put me out of my misery..... cleanly....

Dirty dancing ...

To take a man to his limits by using your body through dance is a powerful, highly sexual very sensual experience..


He must not touch, the only touching allowed is controlled by you, defenseless he is powerless to use anything except his eyes .


Visually hes stimulated, you can see what effect you're having on him, the more you excite him the more excited and erotic your dancing becomes.



You can feel the closeness, although he cant touch all his senses are coming to life , the smell of your skin so close , the gentle brush of a breast sweeping against him..


turning, you arch into him slowly, thrusting your head backwards to rest against his neck, he is touching with his face and following every move now with his eyes, wondering whats coming next ..


arch and gyrate into him slowly but harder sliding up his thigh to his groan, make sure he feels every movement now, too light and it won't have any effect, to hard and it takes away the sensation,

so use your body to feel the pressure feel the heat as the friction of the movement warms up his every sense..

all you can hear is the beat of the music, getting lost into that moment only , imagine you are naked and about to slide onto him and feel him inside you.

the more you want him the more he'll want you, but hold back.. use the energy to really put him through his pace, work his imagination, until he wants to touch badly..

place his hands gently over your breasts, only for a moment, enough to feel the heat coming through your top , your erect nipples are telling him, hes not the only one getting excited..

turning back maintain eye contact now and hold it....
give him messages by using your eyes..

gently unbutton your top and allow his hands to open and slide it down your back, hes inches away now so you can now feel his breath on your skin, nuzzle into his neck and kiss , lick, tease the skin, til you can see his head moving in the direction of your mouth..

gently pull away, don't kiss his mouth yet... but maintain that eye contact

lower your hands whilst resting your body open over his groin, gently squeezing him between your legs, all the time gyrating your hips so the movements stay rhythmic , the music is deep and hypnotic, and it seems louder now in your head..

slowly unbutton his shirt, use your eye contact to tell him where your moving to next..
trace from where you left his neck, all the way down to his nipples, lick, suck gently probing your tongue all around the area, feel the hardness of them between your lips..

you have his full attention now, you know where he wants you to go..

lower your mouth, keep it firm on the skin, hard kisses, hes struggling now not to touch, his natural reaction is to hold your head, and place it where he wants it most...

slide up, positioning your breasts at eye level, connected still by your eyes, unbutton you jeans, pull down just enough, so he can see your sensual curves, your hips gyrating and he can now visually see your naked wiggles..

turning slide down your jeans, all the way down to the floor, turning your head only, you have nothing on except a g string now, you'll see where his eyes are firmly focused !
bending forwards arch your back as much as you can, giving him visually everything on display, except whats hidden through a tiny string, place your hand behind you

pulling out the string and sliding it down one side, slide your hand in between your own legs, whist staring straight at him, he knows its a matter of time now, you are soaking wet and want nothing now than to have him inside you...

turning towards him, his trousers are only thing between your naked bottom half and being able to feel his skin between your legs, lower yourself and unzip them..

its natural as you gently pull hell raise up so they glide off, lower you head and begin where you left off, kissing licking sucking now, place his penis between your hands, licking sucking the sides, caress the base with your fingers tracing where you can feel that blood pumping to, tempting him with your tongue, tasting his juices, he will be leaking, hes building up, so as you lick and suck him, look straight into his eyes.....

now both of you are naked, the dancing now starts, allow him to now use his hands, and by this time you'll want him to badly, sliding back onto him, you feel the full heat of skin on skin, every sense you have now should be alight, there are no inhibitions, hes seen everything there is to see, but not felt what you want him to, allow him now to move you to where he wants you to go..

you can both hear the music but its more distant, other senses are now working overtime..

allow him to do what he wants to, and take control, he is highly aroused now and if any man claims they can't be taken to the limits by a dance..........

they need to try dirty dancing .......

xxx

That Friday feeling

Ive got that Friday feeling again.....lol

Yes its the end of the work week for me, and nearly time to enjoy what the weekend brings...

Estelle is on her way to wales so im holding down the fort today and hoping she has a great time at the wedding...

Sandra is with me all day today....yipeeeeeeeeeeee

we are gonna sing and drive away the neighbours in our element...

Ive missed her this week as shes at my home and im normally at the unit, so today im working from home...

Theres a postal strike at royal mail today so i cant send any orders so its the perfect excuse to spend my day with someone who really makes me smile and make tea all day.....

Ive had a really busy week im looking neglected and am gonna take enough time out today to put that right ....

Tuesday

Ive been having to play dodgeball today at work... lol

Im trying to do some posters for my partners party while he keeps asking me to do things so ive been slamming down the laptop lid fast ..lol

Ive come to the conclusion hes gonna have to go out ! lol so tomorrow hes being dragged off so i can try and get up to mischief in peace...

I dont want to embarras him just make him giggle so if anyone has any ideas please email forward....

Im starting to look forward to it today, my friend emailed and hopefully her sister and partner will be adding to the list, so im really pleased, and hope they will all enjoy themselves and may even get to know us... id welcome the chance.........

My sister is doing the food for me which is really such a help, she likes cooking and offered to swap a day at the office for one in the kitchen, so ive taken up her kind offer...
And thank you for everyones offer of help, its much appreciated, but this party is for all of you to enjoy yourselves, so it wouldnt be fair to make you contribute, im sure what evers not there we can get past with giggles and a good spirit... your contributions will be by being there...

Thats enough for me...........

Debate

It was raining yesterday and i had to do shorts and hotpants for the shop... so like the mad thing i am, i went outand did them wet look ...lol (appologies for the horrified look) i was a bit nervous of moving in these...lol

I do have normal cut ones (for those who are wide mouthed) but these are for the braver women out there (or the very drunk!) where are you Creane ?...lol

This is where i would love your help please...

Is it just a man thing or do women wear them this short?

Im NOT showing the behind shot, the front is bad enough...lol

do i list them in the shop or customise them and create a belt....lol

Any help would be greatly appreciated... lol

Editing day

What a beautiful morning..... yes i know its been raining but it all smells lovely, ive been up since 5 sitting in the garden gathering thoughts...lol

Today i have a really busy one, im working from home as i have a lot of photos to square up for the website...

Ive gone back to my roots and am enjoying doing all the new range outside, i feel free and it comes across in the photos, im just not someone who likes to be shut inside, it eats away at me and i get anxious....

So this weekend ive worked solidly and am slowly gettin there, ive had to keep a couple of the tops, every time i looked at them they screamed at me to please "keep me, keep me" lol so what else could i do....

Im tired this morning but a good shower and something to eat should put that to rest so i can get on...

Thats the good thing abot working outside, theres no lighting needed, nothing artificial, casting shadows, just good old fashioned sunlight, and the wind through my hair.... it makes the listing so much easier...

So if ive done my job right today i may even get some new stuff loaded, ive got another 3 days of photos to do so im doing it little by little....

Enjoy the day everyone, think of me sitting here in my headset singing my head off....and wish me luck...

Its gonna be a good one today ..... i love this part.........

Feel Good Friday

Had a great night last night i went to Waxham beach for midsummers ....

It was wonderful, the group made me feel so welcome and I for one definately had a night to remember...

I was a little worried about going on my own at first, as I'm one of those people not good at going places on my own (something i inherited from Geoff) but my partner seemed to overcome that last night with words.... I'm so glad i went, i wouldn't have missed it for the world ....

I drove home singing my head off and when i got home he had cooked me a fantastic meal and laid it all out outside .... i couldn't tell him id been eating all night...lol so today i look like a pot bellied pig....lol

Ive got a day with the girls again , Steve is fishing with his friend so its gonna be a good feel good Friday....

I love working with Julie and Estelle I'm so lucky to have them around me....

I feel so happy and peaceful today, I slept so well but overslept til 8.30 (oops poor kids) lol breakfast on the run..

But must have needed it .... we have a really exciting weekend planned so I'm gonna enjoy the day today and the company of good people... and really look forward to the weekend....

Have a great day everyone.......

Kids

Was up with the birds early today, the sun was beaming in so i thought id get up extra early and enjoy it.... lol

Its been a manic day today, fun but manic....

Ive been sorting out an insurance claim on top of the normal work... and i had a list of mum duties to do ...why do my kids always seem to have these things at the same time ...lol ... they do everytime.....

I have cooking lessons for one with no warning i had to come up with all the ingredients she needs to make cakes, where kids think you can magic cake decorations from is beyond me so ive been cutting flowers out of marzipan trying to look organised (not at all) lol....

The second is off to play korfball at the uea and needs packed luch and a list of extra needs..
the third is doing a viking day and wants me to sew a viking costume it will only take 2 mins acording to him.. yes but my machines are at the unit not at home !! lol

and last but not least Ryan is going to the tower of london for a day out with the school.... lol 6.30 start ...

I havent had one letter ??????? must be arriving by royal mail i guess ....lol

they are usually in the drawers at school along with last terms ones they never brought home... folded up as paper planes i bet... lol

Tonight im supposed to do photos.... someone please tell me why was i nuts enough to get up at 5 why didnt i just stay in bed like a normal person......lol

At least i can say I never get bored.... i wouldnt have time too ! lol...........

Ive done what they've all asked now its my turn for my time out, im off for a tan and a shower....

Hmmmmm .......... someone please notice the washing up ...........

Flight

Had a brilliant time at my lesson today i came back on a high...lol

I thought they were going to cancel my lesson due to the rain but they didn't..lol it was totally uplifting...

My horse is a huge white mare called 'shadow', shes very temperamental like most us females ..lol but I'm totally hooked now and booked in every week...

I'm getting better Ive learnt to stand on the horse correctly now and move with the horses movement , i was trotting away happily alone today , so my bum shouldn't hurt quite so much this week... lol ..... its better than last week i was supposed to be going up when i was going down....ouch

I never thought it was so hard, but I'm really enjoying learning, i want to be able to do it properly and have done since i was about 7 most girls wanted to be nurses or air hostesses i wanted to dance sew and horseride....lol

My partner came to watch me today with the kids ..... im so pleased ... probably as hes knows this was one of my biggest wishes on my list...

.... fancy that ! the dirty dancer who wants to learn to show jump....lol

Fashions capital

I'm back from my trip this week totally shattered but it held what i hoped...

We drove 9 hours throughout the night and arrived at 6am but couldn't book in our hotel until 5pm that night..lol

So there we were sleeping in the car in a underground car park before setting out to walk miles, my fella sure knows how to treat a lady...lol ..saying that i found it fun..

We had to keep going the first day but it was well worth it, Ive bought some fantastic styff have a range i think is just what the site needs and im back to feeling excited again.. Paris holds many things for people but for me it holds that rush... the colours textures come to life, my head goes mad with designs and i end up sitting at my cafe drawing pictures that are coming to life in my head... so for inspiration its just kick started my passion again...big time..

I bought everything the sites missing and went with what i felt, so i hope the customers will like it (not a retro top in sight lol) its perfect to accessorise with what i already have ...

We got back early hours today so we missed the last night, Our vehicle was so loaded up we couldn't get anymore things in, but i couldn't relax knowing it was sitting in there overnight so we decided to leave early.... i know i joke about my fella sometimes being a pain, but i don't know anyone that could drive the way he has over the last 3 days , I'm thankful he stayed awake and alert enough to get us home safely... driving at the speeds Parisians use, doesn't allow for any mistakes as we witnessed...

Ive managed to to christen Paris too with style... lol ...what a way to go....

The trip was hard, but very exciting, and has sent me home with probably more determination than Ive had in a long time, I feel Ive got enough passion back to do just about anything now....

My heads back to best and i hope everyone will love the new range as much as i do...

Paris

Were all set ready to leave for Paris, i cant wait....
The last couple of weeks have been good to us were both feeling back to best and rearing to go..
The business is in Estelles excellent hands for a few days, and as my good friend i know shell look after me, she always does and has shown her true spirit over the last few months so im going to have a few well earned days off then coming back with a kick in my stride (and hopefully a smile to match lol)
I went horseriding yesterday for the first time, ive always wanted to go but never got round to it so along with my oasis and kickboxing its now joined my week...
I am buying in to add to my range so im excited about getting into the thick of it,, Paris is always beautiful at this time of year, and i know the styles will be amazing...
Ive packed some sexy gear and a few surprises for hubby...
and a bottle of bubbly in the boot to celebrate.. my fella looks like hes landed himself a really good job...
Have a great weekend everyone............

Feeling

Some things you dont see...
Some words you just cant say...
Some feelings you keep hidden...
But some things mean so much...


We both feel so much better today, and its all thanks to you guys...

Thank you so much for my gifts, i know i dont say much, but they really do mean a lot ...

I havent slept so well in weeks !! lol

Had a great night thanks to your visit...

my wish was for many more ..........

Time Out - In

Im still tired but managed to take a night for myself, i had the longest bath with the kids bringing me a vodka up ! my partner also cooked me a meal, which was lovely....

We spent a night in the garden, not doing much just talking & listening to music, but it was so pretty all the candles were lit and it really was nice to just do nothing...

The peace was soon shattered though as heard a young girl screaming, we couldn't see where she was so we were all running about trying to see what was happening..

You don't get this type of thing in our area so everyone was alarmed, within 2 min's it sounded like a world war was erupting, with many voices screams shouting and then the girl screaming hes got a knife...

That was it ! my fella rang the police and we all went out to help, it was a group of teenagers outside the convenience store who had managed to start one hell of a fight, the police said many people called them and they were already on their way, and within min's 2 riot vans turned up and thankfully stopped anyone from getting hurt...

my kids were terrified my eldest knows the boys well especially Reece, he was expelled from school at the age of 7 so now spends hos day just milling about having nothing to do..

I blame society, theres nowhere for these kids to go except hang out on the wreck, when we were younger there was more to do, i spent most of my nights hanging out with friends in a youth club, you cant find one now for the love of money, and they wonder why the kids are growing up as thugs...

Its become a place where parents are too busy working to survive, to do the stuff families used to, the kids are bringing themselves up, and were creating a society of kids that are bored or stuck in front of a TV with video games, its all morally wrong...

Eventually it all calmed down and the road went quiet, i fell asleep but was woken at 4am by some bloke who decides to keep ringing and asking me who i am ? lol

it begins with a F and ends with an F... especially at that time in the morning, he eventually got the message when my fella was woken up and decided to give him an ear bashing,, hence ive been up since 4.30 , good job i went to bed early....

That's just what the Dr ordered a nice pleasant quiet night to chill......................lol

Ive got my sister coming tonight to sit for the kids so we can go out, i was invited to a club with creane and the girls tonight, but im really not up to it, im not feeling good at the moment... and need something to perk me up, so have made up a night that i think will be good spiritually to help ... the poledancing ill do later, when i feel better..

Double vision

What a week........is it the weekend soon?

I was supposed to be out tonight and enjoying myself with the girls, so why am i sitting here working....
I must be nuts !! lol

Im nearly finished to the point i will be able to just work humain hours and start enjoying myself again, so its all been worthwhile... get that pole ready !

Its been a mad couple of weeks, not much nice stuff to blog about as ive worked day and night, so appologies for you who read and thought ive died. ...i nearly have inside...lol

Im not quite dead yet! although i may look very much like it..

Have a great weekend everyone ........

Blessings

Its been another good day, ive had some brilliant orders today so its really made me feel more positive, they seem to like what im doing to the site and are ordering well, the more i get into the work the more i can see so much prospect, im enjoying the change of scene and get to listen to music all day while i type...

Ive been invited to my sisters for my birthday, steve sadly wont be able to spend the day with me he has been asked to help his dad , so im taking the kids and hoping its sunny, its a bbq (as she cant cook anything else!) lol but im really pleased she asked...its much appreciated..

Finally get to try surfing soon, i cant wait to see my fella try to get up at 4am..lol
Somehow i think ill be going alone and the house will all still be in bed by the time i get back...hehe, miracles dont usually happen with rising the dead......lol

The week is flying by and im gaining speed by the day now ....

I love thursdays... i get to spend time with my grandparents and be with sandra all day, its a real blessing...........

outside in

Good morning everyone, happy bank holiday to you that are still lounging about in your dressing gowns..lol

well the weekends over and i have to say Ive had a good time, Ive been down to the beach felt the wind through my hair and feel so much better than i did Friday...

Ive been outside this morning in the garden speed skipping..lol honestly.. it burns calories like nothing else and if you pop a head set on with fast tracks on it, you skip like crazy, i learnt that in kickboxing and always enjoyed it,although i did get wet this morning as its raining...lol

I'm sweeping up sand everywhere this morning, i seem to have brought back half the beach last night but i had such a great night it was really worth it...

I went back to or chant beach and sat with a group who were all enjoying a few drinks and a welcoming large bonfire, it really is such a magical place and brings back so many fond memories of our night in that storm...

Today i have 3 dresses to finish sewing, 4 kids hair cuts (5 if you include the other half), and a house to clean, as all need doing badly by tomorrow so its gonna be a busy day today, but I'm full of life today showered and ready to go....lol

Lol i had to giggle yesterday, i had a guy called romeo send me the most bizare email through my space, he was nice looking (and knew it) and decided to email me with a friend request (amongst other things lol), i wouldn't normally do it but i sent back a reply telling him that although he had looks he didn't have much else going for him, probably had a dick the size of his manners....

Id rather have a friendship with a battery powered rabbit lol....

Ive met a few really nice people who i talk to on there and really am not interested in the outside shell only whats inside a person...

have a great day everyone, whatever you are doing.......

Simple Things In Life

Went out on my own tonight , it was lovely ....

I feel so much better than i have in weeks inside , so im glad i went...

Being in my little car and singing my head off to my music, it really is the small things that keep me going, you can keep the money, all i want and look for cannot be bought....

Ive been walking all night up the beach, there were a group of people there all having a party, which i kindly got invited to bless, but watching them all round the fire as i went wandering was lovely, i would really love to go camping there......

The sea was so calm tonight, there was no wind and its the calmest its ever been when ive visited it , totally beautiful ...

It certainly helped ive come back a different person to when i left...lol

theres something about the sea that just reaches in and takes all the stress away, so i sat there on the rocks with a flask listening to my music watching the waves gently break....

Im taking a day off tomorrow and going to the oasis, ive really missed it, so like all things you miss when they go, im really looking forward to having that back in my week...

Time for a shower and a brandy, ive lit the candles and am going to finish the night in style........

relaxed .......

Week ends here

Im struggling to wake up this morning its not like me but i did have a few glasses of vodka last night so that may have something to do with it..or the fact im just tired and so glad the weekends here to help...

Dino's popping in this morning so we can arrange surfing lessons, so if i dont write any blogs after today....ive probably drowned........lol

Im now gonna cook the biggest breakfast i can imagine and get my lot up, its a lovely morning so breakfast today is being served in the garden..

Im turning my computer off this weekend and having some fun, so have a great weekend everybody, dont do anything i wouldnt do..............

Friends Reunited

Had a brilliant day today we caught up with an a couple we used to be good friends with who moved away and now thankfully are back....

He asked us to go surfing with him before but never got the chance, so its now on for the weekend .... i cant wait........lol

The beach they use is the one next to my photo beach, so i even know the way there, what fun this will be, i know im gonna love it and have a real giggle....

We were talking about soceity and what it does to people and things we discussed before, they are now doing so it made me think, apparently being self suffiencient is everything its cracked up to be and they are living proof...

My fella really gets on with him so well, hes a total free spirit and always so carefree so its lovely to have them back ...

The great thing is my eldest son is his boys best friend so we can take the kids with us and let them lose to just play...now that really does add the icing to the cake..

welcome back whens the beach party .........lol

Up with the birds

Good morning everyone....

I had an early night last night,which seemed to have done me the world of good...

Ive finally finished revising whats already in the website so today i finally get to work on the good stuff....yeah

Ive been waiting for this for weeks, at least now im really going to enjoy it..

The good news yesterday was that my friends arrived safetly on holiday and i have a little friend whos moved in with me ..lol

Shes made a little nest right about my bedroom window and is singing in contentment, im glad she came, its made me smile this morning..

So ive added her to my list of breakfasts i have to provide so her and mr stork will get fed first, after all they are the only ones who ever get up as early as i do..lol

I have sandra with me today who always manages to make me smile all day, and my grandparents, so it will be a lovely day today........

Ill let you all know how my day goes, and hope you all have a great day too...