Blood is thicker

Today has been a much more positive day ..........

I had a positive talk with my partner who's now thankfully agreed that i should go back to kickboxing ........ yes

And tonight we are having a well earned night out ......... bliss

We've spent a day today doing all those little jobs that never get finished and finally my head is starting to lighten ......

We've had a really strange week, things have happened this end that we didn't expect to and its kinda knocked us both off the line a bit ...

They are personal things to him so i cant say too much, all i can say is he has another son who he had when he was very young, who decided he wanted to see his dad, hes now 15 .....

Its a hard one for them both and all i can do is offer my support and hope it will build up the bond that was sadly broken, we all have to remember the kids feel it the most and by using them as pawns between mother and father hurts and unsettles them so much inside ...

I'm really glad he decided to get in touch, he needs support from his dad and the chance to get to know each other.........

So ill do everything i can to make sure he feels welcome here and to help them both ....I'm really proud of the way they both dealt with it and their positive manners towards it all...

I hope they can both gain from getting to know each other again and rebuild a strong wonderful lasting relationship ...